The mind is its own place, and in itself can make a heaven of hell, a hell of heaven. --John Milton, Paradise Lost
Today more than ever, the education doled out in classrooms is cold and cognitive. But, once outside, it is our uneducated emotions that move us, hold us back, and lead us astray. It is, at first and at last, our emotions that determine our choice of profession, partner, and politics, and our relation to money, sex, and religion. Nothing can make us feel more alive, or more human, than our emotions, or hurt us more. Yet many people lumber through life without giving full consideration to their emotions, partly because our empirical, materialistic culture does not encourage it or even make it seem possible, and partly because it requires unusual strength to gaze into the abyss of our deepest drives, needs, and fears. This book proposes to do just that, examining over 25 emotions ranging from lust to love and humility to humiliation, and drawing some useful and surprising conclusions along the way.
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Burton is never short of an interesting and sharp judgment. —Prof Peter Toohey, Psychology Today
Contents:
Introduction
1. Boredom
2. Loneliness
3. Laziness
4. Embarrassment, shame, and guilt
5. Pride
6. Humiliation
7. Humility
8. Gratitude
9. Envy
10. Greed
11. Lust
12. Sadomasochism
13. Desire
14. Hope
15. Nostalgia
16. Ambition
17. Anger
18. Patience
19. Depression
20. Fear and anxiety
21. Empathy
22. Altruism
23. Friendship
24. Love
25. Kissing
26. Self-esteem
27. Courage
28. Ecstasy
29. Wonder
Today more than ever, the education doled out in classrooms is cold and cognitive. But, once outside, it is our uneducated emotions that move us, hold us back, and lead us astray. It is, at first and at last, our emotions that determine our choice of profession, partner, and politics, and our relation to money, sex, and religion. Nothing can make us feel more alive, or more human, than our emotions, or hurt us more. Yet many people lumber through life without giving full consideration to their emotions, partly because our empirical, materialistic culture does not encourage it or even make it seem possible, and partly because it requires unusual strength to gaze into the abyss of our deepest drives, needs, and fears. This book proposes to do just that, examining over 25 emotions ranging from lust to love and humility to humiliation, and drawing some useful and surprising conclusions along the way.
Reviews:
Burton is never short of an interesting and sharp judgment. —Prof Peter Toohey, Psychology Today
Contents:
Introduction
1. Boredom
2. Loneliness
3. Laziness
4. Embarrassment, shame, and guilt
5. Pride
6. Humiliation
7. Humility
8. Gratitude
9. Envy
10. Greed
11. Lust
12. Sadomasochism
13. Desire
14. Hope
15. Nostalgia
16. Ambition
17. Anger
18. Patience
19. Depression
20. Fear and anxiety
21. Empathy
22. Altruism
23. Friendship
24. Love
25. Kissing
26. Self-esteem
27. Courage
28. Ecstasy
29. Wonder
